Become a Student at Who We Must Become
The Mystery School for the New Humanity
Join the online school of world philosophy and practice.
What It's Like Here
Therapy by itself does not work.
Transformational programs by themselves do not work.
Spiritual practice by itself does not work.
That is why you keep going to this course and the next one. And the next one. And the next one. A new therapist, a new program, a new system. And none of it quite works.
It does not work because none of these practices can actually land until you live inside the most coherent Story of Value that exists.
A Story of Value is the context, the framework, the worldview from which you generate reality, from which you generate yourself, from which you make every large and small decision of your life.
Whether visible or invisible, we always live inside a story. And that story is always a story of value. The question is whether the story you are living inside is true, coherent, and adequate to the moment we are in.
You are right to yearn. You are right to want something more. You are right to feel the quiet desperation when it seems like this is all there is. And you are right to know there is a world that is so true, so good, so beautiful, that is already here and yearning to be disclosed.
When you study CosmoErotic Humanism, you step on the path and practice of becoming the greatest version of yourself: who you must become for the sake of the greater whole.
When you step into the Field of Value, this version of you becomes inevitable.
What Students Say
"Who We Must Become has liberated me from a sense of powerlessness that I had because I didn't know myself and my role fully. It is fun, depth, work, power, communion, purpose, love, all of it. Just the place to be."
Dorothea, Therapist
"Marc has taught me the way to evolve from where we are as a culture, to the more beautiful world we all know is possible. He presents a unique way that integrates ancient philosophy with modern sciences, as well as the philosophies of enlightenment from the East."
Alexandre Lenoir, Life Coach
"Until I heard the teachings of Dr. Marc Gafni I had low self esteem and lived my life mostly to please others. For me the teachings are memories from my heart and soul. So if you are (soul)searching, or you don't like the way you are living right now, you want to discover your Unique Gifts and share them with your loved ones and the world, this is the place to be."
Suzanne Van Doorn, Holland
Become a Student at Who We Must Become
The Mystery School for the New Humanity
Step inside an online school built around the New Story of Value, the only viable response to existential risk, and the path from Homo Sapiens to Homo Amor. This is where the teachings stop being ideas and start integrating into your daily lived experience.
What You Get When You Join Today
Evolutionary Prayer with Dr. Marc Gafni
Twice a week. Build a consistent prayer and study practice and deepen your relationship to the Infinite Intimate (the name that we call God in CosmoErotic Humanism).
Whole Body Gospel — 8 Week Online Bodywork with Dr. Kristina Kincaid
Transfigure from Homo Armor to Homo Amor. Embodied practice that lets the teachings move from the head into the whole body.
Sacred Text Study Circle
Read the foundational texts of CosmoErotic Humanism at an unhurried pace, alongside fellow students from around the world. Includes study guides and supporting materials.
Outrageous Acts of Love Challenge
Monthly. Reflect, reset, and commit to a new growth project every single month. The Dharma made tangible in how you live your day.
Study at the cutting edge of The New Story of Value, live and online with Marc.
Study at the cutting edge of Unique Self Theory, live and online with Marc. New Dharma, taught as it is unfolding.
The Mystery School Vault
Instant access to 10+ self study courses and hundreds of hours of video with Dr. Marc Gafni and other leading thinkers of CosmoErotic Humanism. Study at your own pace, return as often as you need.
$100
per month
No contract. Cancel any time.
100% of your membership will go towards the production and marketing of The New Story of Value. Your contribution will help us write The Great Library and help us continue to reach millions of people around the globe.
This is not just personal transformation. This is transformation for the Sake of the Whole.
This is one of the deepest differentiators of what we are doing here. You will not find it anywhere else.
Most schools, most programs, most teachers are aimed at your personal growth. That is good, but it is not enough. The work we do at Who We Must Become is your transformation for the sake of the whole. Your becoming is in service to the future of humanity. Your unique self is needed by the world.
We stay in constant contact with the state of the world, with where things actually are, with what is at stake right now. The teachings, the prayer, the embodiment, the community, are all built around one truth: we do not transform alone, and we do not transform only for ourselves. We transform because the future of humanity is asking it of us.
You are funding a new vision of humanity.
When you join The School, you are not just enrolling in a program. You are stepping into a movement. Your monthly membership directly supports the work of the Center for World Philosophy and Religion, the think tank where Dr. Marc Gafni, Dr. Zak Stein, and a global team of philosophers, scientists, and practitioners are articulating CosmoErotic Humanism — the New Story of Value being written in response to existential risk.
Every membership keeps the foundational books being written, the public teachings free for the world, and the think tank operating at full strength. You receive profound transformation. The world receives the work that makes a livable future possible. That is the deal. And we are honored to do it with you.
Our Teachers
Dr. Marc Gafni
Head Teacher, Who We Must Become
Marc is a lead voice articulating CosmoErotic Humanism, a New Story of Value rooted in First Principles and First Values, written in response to existential risk and the meta crisis of our moment. Aubrey Marcus has called his encounter with Marc and CosmoErotic Humanism "the most paradigm shifting podcast I have ever recorded." Marc has been described as a kind of Da Vinci or Einstein of philosophy, making breakthrough discoveries in thought articulating a new vision of meaning for the world.
As Head Teacher of Who We Must Become, Marc leads evolutionary prayer twice every week with students. Direct, weekly access to a thought leader of his stature is virtually unheard of, and it is the heart of what makes this school what it is.
Dr. Kristina Kincaid
Master Embodiment Teacher
Dr. Kristina Kincaid is a lineage holder of CosmoErotic Humanism and co-author, with Dr. Marc Gafni, of A Return to Eros, a groundbreaking work that reveals the hidden relationship between the erotic, the sexual, and the holy, drawing on the secret wisdom tradition of the erotic mystics.
Her central work is collaborating with Marc to bring the Dharma into the body. Where Marc transmits the New Story of Value in word and teaching, Kristina carries that same Dharma into flesh and breath, so the teachings do not stop at the mind but land in the whole of who you are. Her work is anchored in the conviction that the information you need to transform yourself is already coded in the body, and that embodiment is the path through which we reclaim our true power and potency.
Inside Who We Must Become, Kristina leads Whole Body Gospel, an 8 week online bodywork program of de-armoring practice that takes the Dharma of CosmoErotic Humanism out of the realm of ideas and into transformation in the whole body.
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Become Who You Must Become
$100/month.
No contract. Cancel any time.
100% of your membership will go towards the production and marketing of The New Story of Value. Your contribution will help us write The Great Library and help us continue to reach millions of people around the globe.
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